What is Haven Unleashed?

Our way of living and how we are doing it can be enough for sure, but some of us still seem to be seeking. The question then is, are we truly living it intentionally, with an abundance of happiness, investing in ourselves, being around those who lift us and in return, we lift them? Are we being impacted positively in our environment to be great and are we impacting others to be great? Life is a rollercoaster, we’ve all heard it, we have all experienced it. It can be smooth sailing and feel like the perfect ride. But it can be rough, a little jerky, a little push and pull. Well, let’s be real. It can have a lot of push and pull! Life is full of emotions, obstacles, up and downs, lots of influences from all areas of comfort and uncomforting. It all becomes factors of what can assist in mental strength or a mental break.

We all want success. We most often just see success as the stereotype advertised definition, of a great paying, well respected career, a beautiful big home with all your great things. We live in a very capitalistic society. No one is fault to that. This is how most of us picture the perfect life. And to keep up with that!? Phew! No one explains the tedious details of how you seek out success. The constant grind of significantly showing up in the way you think you are suppose to show up! With that, most often, the two most important things are sacrificed- family and health. The emotions that come and go, the stress that bares so much weight on you. Things get messy, things become blurry, the end goal ever changing, and sometimes people influence choices that sometimes wouldn’t have been the choice for your initial life journey prospect. We can control what we can control by our choices, but we can’t control how it impacts and all the moving factors that acquaint with it.

That is life.

Life is what we make of it. We can get lost in the crazy of it, keeping ourselves so busy, we forget to make intentional time for ourselves, our family, or our loved ones. It happens. Life is truly a beautiful mess. It is all a balancing act. We do what we do, to get through it all. It is about the journey. And with that, comes many emotions we have to learn to manage. No matter how many books, audibles, journals, quotes one may read to motivate, inspire, drive them; some of us seem to always be seeking. We are wanting to figure out the how, the why, the when? We want to be motivated, be more driven, seek more prosperity, find our peace, get success, be successful, etc. The reality: It is never ending.

So we call your safe haven your area of safety, content, comfort and confidence. Where you do you! You can be your upmost, true self. However, life has most of us busy and staying busy. Staying focused on our focus, whatever that may be. We tend to forget about time, self-love, loving others, our worthiness, our family’s worthiness, true happiness and experiences. It is these things that can bring the upmost joy in our lives; and we forget this. In most cases, not intentionally.  Unfortunately, we get so busy those things get pushed aside. Forgetting it can create a space for enliven, fortify, activation, soul searching, healing, or simply a nice break to recharge yourself. We often times forget the most important thing our mind and bodies need, want and deserve. We have to kindly remind ourselves; we are living life. Don’t let life fly past you. We drown ourselves in the tedious things in life that we think make our lives live. We focus on working too much. We focus on how to be more successful. It is all about perspective and what you make out of it. We typically do the things we do for good intentions but can get distracted and forget the reasons to why we are doing it. When we give ourselves the time to take a break, we are so worn out and tired, we forget to live vibrantly and vivaciously. 

There can be that silver lining of figuring out how to get to that want, that need, the aspirations, etc. However, we shouldn’t have to sacrifice all the goodness in life offerings. Life is to be lived. So, when you break away from that perspective: you need to work to show up and show up to work to equate success.  When that is redefined with balance for you; that my friend, is your Haven Unleashed.